"The solution really is third bathrooms, but only the fetishists think that's a bad idea."
I understand why you say this, and in an ideal world it would be true, but in practice it doesn't work unless you have some method of forcing trans people to use the third bathroom. Not to mention the enormous cost to build all of these extra bathro…
"The solution really is third bathrooms, but only the fetishists think that's a bad idea."
I understand why you say this, and in an ideal world it would be true, but in practice it doesn't work unless you have some method of forcing trans people to use the third bathroom. Not to mention the enormous cost to build all of these extra bathrooms.
My belief that people should use the bathrooms they "pass" as is based on the fact that that's what we already do. And any deviance from that would lead to male looking people (trans men) using women's bathrooms. And the obvious problems that would lead to.
So yeah, I think the best way to treat bathrooms, which, as I say to Kaylin, is different to how you should treat changing rooms, prisons, etc, is to say that if you're in a bathroom and people are giving you weird looks, you're in the wrong bathroom. But otherwise, just do your thing and leave.
Oh, and business owners should stop being so cowardly, and when an obvious man is trying to use the women's bathroom and women complain, they should side with women. The fact that women are more likely to face consequences if they challenge a man in the ir bathroom than the man is, is insane. And if the fetishists knew they'd be challenged and that they wouldn't be able to cry victim, I think they'd be less likely to try their luck.
"The solution really is third bathrooms, but only the fetishists think that's a bad idea."
I understand why you say this, and in an ideal world it would be true, but in practice it doesn't work unless you have some method of forcing trans people to use the third bathroom. Not to mention the enormous cost to build all of these extra bathrooms.
My belief that people should use the bathrooms they "pass" as is based on the fact that that's what we already do. And any deviance from that would lead to male looking people (trans men) using women's bathrooms. And the obvious problems that would lead to.
So yeah, I think the best way to treat bathrooms, which, as I say to Kaylin, is different to how you should treat changing rooms, prisons, etc, is to say that if you're in a bathroom and people are giving you weird looks, you're in the wrong bathroom. But otherwise, just do your thing and leave.
Oh, and business owners should stop being so cowardly, and when an obvious man is trying to use the women's bathroom and women complain, they should side with women. The fact that women are more likely to face consequences if they challenge a man in the ir bathroom than the man is, is insane. And if the fetishists knew they'd be challenged and that they wouldn't be able to cry victim, I think they'd be less likely to try their luck.