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I met my wife 19 years ago online. Since then, the apps have become even more vicious with simple swipes and low quality interactions that do not lead to investment in another person. The basic way to find good interactions has not changed. Do not out-pace others in your willingness to communicate. Those who are looking for more than an easy lay will put little effort into it. Those seeking a conversation must be immediately willing to read your profile. Even as a male, I would recognize females with lots of questions about me but revealing only a few superficial things about themselves. They were looking for a stranger to entertain them, and they had not intent of making any investment. I too soon gave them no time and stopped answering their questions. You can easily filter those willing to mutually invest from the many that are not. Good luck!

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