"It’s the journey toward loving ourselves that gets so damn complicated."
Yes indeed. I think that's why some people choose hating somebody else. It's easier. And distracts attention from their feelings about themselves.
J is deeply insecure about his blackness. We've actually had a number of conversations on the topic. But instead of looking inside for the solution, he searches everywhere around him for something to blame. Sadly, it's easy to see how this will unconsciously damage his son's self-image too.
"It’s the journey toward loving ourselves that gets so damn complicated."
Yes indeed. I think that's why some people choose hating somebody else. It's easier. And distracts attention from their feelings about themselves.
J is deeply insecure about his blackness. We've actually had a number of conversations on the topic. But instead of looking inside for the solution, he searches everywhere around him for something to blame. Sadly, it's easy to see how this will unconsciously damage his son's self-image too.