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X. Coe's avatar

It may sound like we're all speaking English, but are we sure that we agree on what "English" is? I fear there's more than just inconsistency here: I perceive serious defects in cognition, as seems to happen with most conversations on this subject. It's like watching a school of fish darting this way, then that. It's painful to watch. The solution: agree on a dictionary that all parties find acceptable. Then, define the terms of the debate. So much better than trying to converse with the intellectual equivalent of a whack-a-mole.

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Steve QJ's avatar

Yeah, it’s brainwashing. It’s like talking to any true believer. They twist themselves in knots because they’re determined to defend a particular lie.

As soon as you decide that there’s no difference between trans women and women, you have to redefine all these other words and concepts to maintain the fiction.

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X. Coe's avatar

I've always been fascinated by cults. Cults rush in where community fails. We seem to be awash with cults now.

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Lightwing's avatar

Where community fails. So true. I feel strongly that parts of social media are a sort of failed community. Any place where immaturity, shortsightedness, and viciousness rule is not a healthy community.

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Grow Some Labia's avatar

That's a powerful observation about 'failed community'.

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Lightwing's avatar

One of my fave things about substack (and it's mostly thoughtful, adult commenters) is how we spark each other into greater insights and awareness. Love it.

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Chris Fox's avatar

It's confusing enough that a "trans woman" is a man and a "trans man" is a woman. Yet to point this out on many a forum guarantees expulsion. I can't wait for this fad to die out but I would've expected it to collapse under the weight of its absurdity long ago.

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