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Boys like having a chance to win. "So your saying there's a chance" - Jim Carey, Dumb and Dumber

When everyone is a winner just or showing up, it really means that nobody can win and that bores many boys. They are constantly told to not seek winning. Girls are thrilled to fit in, but this is not the same motivator for many boys.

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I don't think I tied my comment in to yours very well, so I hope the connection of trying to win and earning respect is possible to imagine.

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