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"I have tried endless approaches"

I can only speak about my experience of your approach, but it's consistently been accusatory and stubborn.

I'm not sure why you're telling me that lots of people of colour love you. Ido t doubt it or think it's anything unusual. You seem to think of people of colour (or "the people I'm a part of) as some kind of club.

I'm trying to explain to you, for your own happiness and understanding, that you'll annoy and eventually alienate many people of colour for doing this. This isn't about brick walls. At least in my case. It's about your absolute refusal to actually listen.

Again, you do you. I'm just offering an explanation for why you might be getting the reaction you're getting.

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