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jen segal's avatar

Why is it so difficult to be charitable? Women who have been - in my own circumstances -

1) casually groped on a Parisian metro

2) propositioned to be a sex worker because my boobs developed early

3) jerked off in front of me on a 2-seat bus seat

4) knifed in the lung in an attempt to force me off the road for rape

5) cleansed my San Francisco street from the negative vibes of a violent near-death rape of a young women

Do you not understand? You believe your trans identity is the Most Important Thing Ever - well, to women living life every day you are suspect. It takes more than a proclamation to gain our trust. Men like Steve QJ get it - they know what we feel.

Maybe practice a little humility, a little grace. Ask. Don’t demand. The posturing is getting a little too much.

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Chris Fox's avatar

“Because trans women aren't being treated as a woman should be. “

And cats aren’t being treated like dogs should be, because-—the envelope, please!—cats are not dogs. Tortoises aren’t pigeons. Giraffes aren’t elephants.

And “trans” women are not women. They are men impersonating women. The impersonation may be as shallow as hectoring others about pronouns or as committed as surgical mutilation. But the demand that everyone else identify them as women is a nonstarter because it is so contrary to reality as to be insane.

That conversation is so loaded with neologisms and acronyms as be be well nigh unreadable. Niki needs to think about something else for a while.

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